{"id":2292,"date":"2012-04-20T05:54:49","date_gmt":"2012-04-20T04:54:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=2292"},"modified":"2012-04-20T05:54:49","modified_gmt":"2012-04-20T04:54:49","slug":"jag-inte-min-historia-bestammer-over-min-framtid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=2292","title":{"rendered":"Jag &#8211; inte min historia &#8211; best\u00e4mmer \u00f6ver min framtid."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jag t\u00e4nker ofta p\u00e5 att vi l\u00e5ter v\u00e5r historia best\u00e4mma \u00f6ver det som kommer att h\u00e4nda. Jag har alltid&#8230; eller jag har aldrig&#8230; Eller den gamla klassiska&#8221; Du kan inte l\u00e4ra gamla hundar att sitta&#8221;. Min hund \u00e4r tre \u00e5r, s\u00e5 hon \u00e4r inte s\u00e5 gammal, men hon l\u00e4r sig st\u00e4ndigt nya trick. Faktum \u00e4r att det kan vi ocks\u00e5. \u00a0Vi beh\u00f6ver inte l\u00e5ta historien spela roll n\u00e4r vi best\u00e4mmer oss f\u00f6r framtiden. N\u00e4r vi l\u00e4gger oss tillr\u00e4tta i n\u00e5got gammalt beteende, s\u00e5 l\u00e4gger vi krokben f\u00f6r oss sj\u00e4lva.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e4remot kan vi har stor nytta av att titta p\u00e5 det som varit och l\u00e4ra oss om v\u00e5ra fallgropar, s\u00e5 vi kan klura ut hur vi undviker dem n\u00e4sta g\u00e5ng. Jag har m\u00e5nga g\u00e5nger sett m\u00e4nniskor som aldrig tidigare g\u00e5tt ned i vikt &#8211; rasa ned och beh\u00e5lla den nya vikten, soffpotatisar bli hurtbullar, flygr\u00e4dda klara av att \u00e5ka l\u00e5ngresor &#8211; vad jag vill s\u00e4ga \u00e4r att det \u00e4r du som best\u00e4mmer om du l\u00e5ter ditt f\u00f6rflutna best\u00e4mma \u00f6ver dig. \u00c4ven om du inte lyckats n\u00e5 ditt m\u00e5l tidigare, s\u00e5 \u00e4r det inget som s\u00e4ger att du inte kan g\u00f6ra det nu. Alla dina tidigare snubbeltr\u00e5dar har l\u00e4rt dig massor om hur du undviker dem denna g\u00e5ng.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-2293\" title=\"best\u00e4mma\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"614\" height=\"409\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/best\u00e4mma.jpg 1276w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 614px) 100vw, 614px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mariahelander.se%2F%3Fp%3D2292&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag t\u00e4nker ofta p\u00e5 att vi l\u00e5ter v\u00e5r historia best\u00e4mma \u00f6ver det som kommer att h\u00e4nda. Jag har alltid&#8230; eller jag har aldrig&#8230; Eller den gamla klassiska&#8221; Du kan inte l\u00e4ra gamla hundar att sitta&#8221;. Min hund \u00e4r tre \u00e5r, s\u00e5 hon \u00e4r inte s\u00e5 gammal, men hon l\u00e4r sig st\u00e4ndigt nya trick. 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