{"id":471,"date":"2010-07-16T07:31:51","date_gmt":"2010-07-16T06:31:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=471"},"modified":"2010-07-16T07:31:51","modified_gmt":"2010-07-16T06:31:51","slug":"sluta-diskriminera-dig-sjalv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=471","title":{"rendered":"Sluta diskriminera dig sj\u00e4lv!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Idag \u00e4r en bra dag att skapa en affirmation att upprepa f\u00f6r dig sj\u00e4lv under dagen.<\/p>\n<p>Har du t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 att vi ofta \u00e4r s\u00e5 uppslukade av v\u00e5ra egna tankar att vi s\u00e4llan reflekterar \u00f6ver om de st\u00e4mmer \u00f6verens med verkligheten eller inte? P\u00e5 olika s\u00e4tt diskriminerar vi oss sj\u00e4lv, i j\u00e4mf\u00f6relse med andra. Vi s\u00e4tter upp s\u00e4rskilda regler eller krav som g\u00e4ller f\u00f6r oss, men inte m\u00e4nniskorna i v\u00e5r omgivning. Kanske ditt arbete ska vara perfekt, men det spelar inte lika stor roll om kollegan inte uppvisar samma galanta resultat. Du f\u00e5r inte ha n\u00e5gra kilos \u00f6vervikt, men dina v\u00e4ninnor \u00e4r supersnygga i sina kurvor. Din respektive f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att pusta ut i h\u00e4ngmattan, men du f\u00e5r inte vila f\u00f6rr\u00e4n du har skrubbat potatisen. Du har f\u00f6rst\u00e5else n\u00e4r din v\u00e4n tackar nej till middagen av n\u00e5gon anledning, men du skulle aldrig komma p\u00e5 tanken att g\u00f6ra samma sak. K\u00e4nner du igen dig, eller har du andra or\u00e4ttvisa regler?<\/p>\n<p>Fundera \u00f6ver om du kan komma p\u00e5 n\u00e5got omr\u00e5de d\u00e4r du diskriminerar dig sj\u00e4lv. Sen anv\u00e4nder du ordet &#8221;f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar&#8221;. Till exempel &#8221;Jag f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att koppla av.&#8221; &#8221;Jag f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att k\u00e4nna och tycka det jag vill&#8221; &#8221;Jag f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att m\u00e5 bra&#8221; &#8221;Jag f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att vara n\u00f6jd med min prestation&#8221; &#8221;Jag f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nar att k\u00e4nna mig vacker och sexig&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Upprepa din affirmation flera g\u00e5nger under dagen. Kanske kan du skriva ned den p\u00e5 en lapp, f\u00f6r att p\u00e5minna dig sj\u00e4lv.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/basta.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-472\" title=\"basta\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/basta-300x267.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/basta-300x267.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/basta.jpg 308w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mariahelander.se%2F%3Fp%3D471&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Idag \u00e4r en bra dag att skapa en affirmation att upprepa f\u00f6r dig sj\u00e4lv under dagen. Har du t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 att vi ofta \u00e4r s\u00e5 uppslukade av v\u00e5ra egna tankar att vi s\u00e4llan reflekterar \u00f6ver om de st\u00e4mmer \u00f6verens med verkligheten eller inte? P\u00e5 olika s\u00e4tt diskriminerar vi oss sj\u00e4lv, i j\u00e4mf\u00f6relse med andra. 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