{"id":5283,"date":"2013-06-10T19:15:21","date_gmt":"2013-06-10T18:15:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=5283"},"modified":"2013-06-10T19:15:51","modified_gmt":"2013-06-10T18:15:51","slug":"5283","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=5283","title":{"rendered":"Vi har alla ont d\u00e5 och d\u00e5"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Det \u00e4r sv\u00e5rt att acceptera. Hur mycket vi \u00e4n str\u00e4var efter att vara harmoniska, balanserade och lyckliga s\u00e5 kommer dagar d\u00e5 det g\u00f6r ont. Dagar d\u00e5 det k\u00e4nns som om allt jobbigt drabbar just dig. Eller dagar d\u00e5 det du l\u00e4ngtat efter inte h\u00e4nder. Dagar d\u00e5 du mister n\u00e5gon som du \u00e4lskar. Eller dagar d\u00e5 du k\u00e4nner dig s\u00e5rbar, liten och sk\u00f6r.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e5gon s\u00e4ger till dig &#8221;Det \u00e4r en ny dag imorgon!&#8221; eller &#8221;Det finns m\u00e5nga fiskar i vattnet&#8221; eller &#8221;Ja, ja, det blir nog bra ska du se.&#8221; Och det \u00e4r klart att du vet att det blir bra. En dag. S\u00e5 sm\u00e5ningom. Men idag g\u00f6r det ont. Och att komma med v\u00e4lmenta kl\u00e4mk\u00e4cka ord lindrar inte din v\u00e4rk, det petar bara i s\u00e5ret. Men att n\u00e5gon ser sm\u00e4rtan i dina \u00f6gon \u00e4ven om du artigt ler. Att n\u00e5gon bara tar din hand och s\u00e4ger &#8221;Det \u00e4r okej. Ibland g\u00f6r det ont.&#8221; det \u00e4r som Alvedon f\u00f6r sj\u00e4len.<\/p>\n<p>Vi har alla ont ibland. Det \u00e4r inte farligt. Det \u00e4r bara s\u00e5 tungt och ensamt. N\u00e4sta g\u00e5ng du har en dag det k\u00e4nns som om du gl\u00f6mde huden hemma ber\u00e4tta det f\u00f6r n\u00e5gon. &#8221;Det g\u00f6r lite ont nu. 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