{"id":6244,"date":"2013-12-28T06:57:28","date_gmt":"2013-12-28T05:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=6244"},"modified":"2013-12-28T06:57:28","modified_gmt":"2013-12-28T05:57:28","slug":"kan-man-valja-vad-man-vill-kanna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/?p=6244","title":{"rendered":"Kan man v\u00e4lja vad man vill k\u00e4nna?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Som med det mesta i ditt liv \u00e4r k\u00e4nslor n\u00e5got vi kan v\u00e4lja att k\u00e4nna och tillst\u00e5nd kan vi v\u00e4lja att kliva in i. Men jag p\u00e5st\u00e5r inte att det \u00e4r l\u00e4tt! Tv\u00e4rtom. Att beh\u00e4rska sina tankar och k\u00e4nslor kan vara n\u00e5got vi str\u00e4var efter, men inte sagt att vi tar oss dit p\u00e5 en kafferast. Dock \u00e4r det ganska sp\u00e4nnande och nyttigt att v\u00e4nda p\u00e5 perspektiven ibland. Och fundera kring vad som \u00e4nder om jag v\u00e4ljer att k\u00e4nna mig n\u00e5got.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e4r jag s\u00e4ger att jag \u00e4r egenf\u00f6retagare s\u00e5 s\u00e4ger ofta folk \u201c\u00c5h vad sk\u00f6nt, d\u00e5 kan du styra helt \u00f6ver dina tider.\u201d Det \u00e4r sant ur ett perspektiv. Andra kan s\u00e4ga \u201cUsch vad jobbigt, d\u00e5 \u00e4r du aldrig ledig.\u201d Det \u00e4r ocks\u00e5 sant, ur ett\u00a0annat\u00a0perspektiv. Fr\u00e5gan \u00e4r vilket perspektiv jag m\u00e5r b\u00e4st av att sj\u00e4lv ha?<\/p>\n<p>Bra dagar v\u00e4ljer jag att k\u00e4nna mig fri och njuta av det. Sen kommer det ibland mindre bra dagar d\u00e5 detta att v\u00e4lja perspektiv inte \u00e4r s\u00e5 l\u00e4tt. Men det \u00e4r ocks\u00e5 okej.<\/p>\n<p>Idag v\u00e4ljer jag att k\u00e4nna mig fri. Fri fr\u00e5n stress. Vad v\u00e4ljer du?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6245\" alt=\"tillst\u00e5nd\" src=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd.jpg\" width=\"1276\" height=\"850\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd.jpg 1276w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/tillst\u00e5nd-624x415.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1276px) 100vw, 1276px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mariahelander.se%2F%3Fp%3D6244&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Som med det mesta i ditt liv \u00e4r k\u00e4nslor n\u00e5got vi kan v\u00e4lja att k\u00e4nna och tillst\u00e5nd kan vi v\u00e4lja att kliva in i. Men jag p\u00e5st\u00e5r inte att det \u00e4r l\u00e4tt! Tv\u00e4rtom. Att beh\u00e4rska sina tankar och k\u00e4nslor kan vara n\u00e5got vi str\u00e4var efter, men inte sagt att vi tar oss dit p\u00e5 en [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[52,553,769,771],"class_list":["post-6244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-kanslor","tag-frid","tag-frihet","tag-kanslor","tag-mindfulness"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6244"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6244\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6246,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6244\/revisions\/6246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mariahelander.se\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}